Sexual Preferences & Terms

Besides your sexuality you may have one or moor sexual preferences. Some are more common than others and some may appear very weird to some and normal to others. Here is a list of the most common.

Cross dressing:>

Cross dressing or abbreviated to CD describes a person who dresses as the opposite sex would i.e., a man would dress as woman and a woman would dress as a man. Despite its stigmas it is something that most of us have tried at some point in our lives. Men often experiment wearing their partner’s sexy knickers purely for the sexual arousement it can create.

An extreme case of this type of sexual behaviour is where a couple married however he wore the wedding dress and she wore the top hat and tales.

Transvestites:>

A transvestite or TV is a man who routinely dress as a women and may even have desires to be a woman and is invariably attracted to men.

Naturists:>

Naturists are completely different to cross dressers or transvestites because they chose to not wear any clothes at all. Although most naturists claim the act is about being free and at one with nature and thus not done for any kind of sexual desire or arousement. Some however do participate in naturist events for sexual arousement.

There are plenty of places where naturism can safely be conducted without risking arrest, these include naturists clubs and naturist holidays. Their may even be a naturist beach near you.

Dogging:>

It is a common fantasy to have sex in an open place however dogging takes this a step further by usually allowing others to watch or even join in.
People often meet in car parks, parks or open places such as woods and fields.
The sexual arousement of this activity stems from the excitement of maybe being caught and may extend to actually enjoying being watched or for some to even allow others to join in.
Despite its name it appears to be a popular practice and couples often announce there dogging location on bulletin boards, there are also a great number of places well known to most of us where this kind of activity takes place.
Apparently Essex Police actually requested the council designate an official location where dogging could legally take place however the council immediately rejected the motion without discussion stating they would have nothing to do with sex.
I believe the Police felt that it was an issue to propose it in the first place and the council ignorant for not even allowing discussion to take place.
As usual just mention the word sex and it’s an instant taboo. Why?

Some serious doggers apparently have a secret code and may announce there presence or intent by flashing their car lights.

The Secret Dogging Code:>

Car parked with doors and windows closed, wish to be watched only. Or may simply be enjoying the view.

Car parked with windows open, wish onlookers to fondle. Or maybe they are just hot.

Car parked with doors open, wish onlookers to join in. Or about to get out!

Swingers:>

Swingers are generally couples that meet other couples to swap partners, similar to the old wife swap parties except the female of the couple and sometimes the male may be Bi.
Most are not looking for other partners because they are not having enough sex on the country most swingers have a very rampant sex live and seek others to join in to enhance the experience.

Swingers can often enjoy fantasies such as watching their partner with others and the female will usually engage in sexual activity with another female.
Fantasies such as sexual activity with two others of the opposite sex can be fulfilled or even a group of people may engage in the activity.
Different couples seek different things, so to help you understand the terms they are listed here.

Soft Swing:>

Soft Swing or soft swap: You should check with the individual couple concerned as people generally have their own idea of its definition but it usually means that they do not have full sex or penetrative sex with others, some soft swingers just like to be watch by others or be watched by others but most do swap partners for oral sex.

Full Swing:>

Full swing or full swapp means to fully swap partners for full penetrative sex.
Some will even do this in separate rooms.