Spice It Up

Ideas to spice your sex

There are so many ways to regenerate your desire for sex, from top shelf magazines to indulging in an actual fantasy hear are some things you may wish to try.

Aphrodisiacs

An aphrodisiac is something said to increase desire for sex.

Coco de mer

This is not actually an aphrodisiac but a giant seed sometimes known as the seed of the sea it is the largest in the world. The one above is obviously a female.

Oysters –

Oysters have been commonly know to increase libido presumably from the large amount of zinc they contain but it may also be to do with the way they are eaten, gently sliding one down your throat may incite thoughts of sexual acts by people watching and eating couple this with the running of the juice down your chin and your away.

Turnips –

For the beginner..

Sexual positions

The bedroom is probably the best place to start your quest for better sex, some things to try are different positions have a look at our list of sexual positions for ideas.

Dressing Up

Dressing up can add extra excitement and be the basis for a fantasy i.e. get her a nurses uniform or have the fire brigade round for tea.

Toys

For the slightly more adventurous toys can be introduced into the bedroom, a whole range of generally electrical gadgets can be found in certain high street shops. The most common of these is a vibrator or dildo.

Probably the best method to increase sexual desire is to actually see images of naked people or read sexy stories various material is readily available.

Magazines

More popular with younger men, from the page 3 girl to the top shelf magazines or even mail order hardcore books are available. Images and stories from this kind of material can leave you very horny indeed.

Videos or DVD's

Again many of us remember watching our first porno, many are available covering every topic imaginable and some that are not. Soft porn is also readily available on regular TV channels.

For the more adventures..

Adult Clubs

Various clubs exist for adult entertainment, fetish clubs, couples clubs, strip clubs, saunas and naturist clubs.

Strip Clubs

Strip clubs can add a good boost to your sexual desire, can be fun in a group with your mates, and are a popular choice for stag parties for both men and women, often an area is provided for a private dance where for a fee, a girl of your choice will perform a strip just for you. No contact with the girls is allowed but they do generally rub their naked bodies on you fairly hard. This is normally called a lap dance.

Do It Together..

If you would prefer to go out as a couple which you should if you are trying to enhance your experiences together, then a number of options exist.

Couples Clubs

Couples clubs or swing clubs are for the swingers, these clubs are not normally exclusively for couples and many allow entry of single men and usually only have one night exclusively for couples. These clubs vary in entry cost and membership and are usually meetings in purposely-modified premises consisting of lounge area, bedrooms and playrooms, bar area or kitchen and bathrooms, saunas and spars.

You are not normally expected to get naked although some couples openly have sex on the beds for all to see but some places do have private rooms for couples not wishing to be porn stars.

Fetish Clubs

Not for the less inhibited of you these clubs have mixed goers who practice clothing fetishes like leather and plastic, role playing fetishes like domination games, usually termed adult clubs these have mixed members of various interests, members are generally heavily tattooed and have large piercings.

The Extreme

If you think some of the things already discussed are a little bold then some of these fetishes may make you squirm.

Pain Torture, Masters & Slaves, and Restraint

Some of us like a little pain, I personally like having my nipples tweaked just enough to cause a slight pain however a little tweak is just not enough for some, who find a good whipping more rewarding. Taking it to the extreme is torture where a person may be punished until they complete a request obviously the sufferer deliberately misbehaves to allow themselves to be punished this then becomes a more master and slave scenario.

Some of us like to be restrained, most of us have probably tried the fury handcuffs but others opt for ropes, stakes and chains, restraint methods are usually combined with the fetishes above.

Pieeing and Scat

Some people actually get turned on from releasing bodily waist on each other, I always remember some graffiti on a public toilet wall which read "I get turned on by the smell of my own shit" some of these people like to drink and even eat or smother their whole body in it. What exactly is the reasoning behind this is unknown but obviously stems from the deep inner feelings we once had in our early existence as animal man, that appears not to have been lost in some individuals.

Back to the norm

There are so many variations of these more extreme fetishes and basically a person may be born with or discover a fetish for almost anything, some more common ones include a fetish for a particular part of the body like the feet or knees, others may find a particular sensation like leather or plastic turns them on or even an object. I once knew a girl who had a desire to be penetrated with an Ann French bottle, another worked her way through my toolbox so whatever your desire, try it, it might be fun and certainly would not be abnormal.

It should be stressed that a woman in the night club with a leather skirt or plastic top probably dose not have a fetish, it only becomes a fetish if it is something that enjoyed so much that sometimes uncontrollable desire for that sensation may develop or it is something practiced and enjoyed often.