This is a list of the most common sex related terms or activities, some you may of heard of and some you may not.
A brief description of each sexual term or activity is given.
If you know any sex terms or activities we have left out please let us know and we will include it in our list.

Sex terms in alphabetical order.

Anal
Anal refers to the anus, if you are asked if you do anal it usually mean do you have penetrative sex up your bottom.
It is very common for men to desire anal sex with women and a lot of women enjoy anal sex however anal sex between men is generally considered wrong.
Country to belief men have a G-Spot, it is located up his anus.

Aphrodisiacs
An aphrodisiac is generally something you eat or drink that can increase your libido or desire for sex. It is claimed many chemicals or foodstuffs act an aphrodisiac the most famous probably being “Spanish Fly”

BDSM
BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism
It covers a wide range of activities which although don’t usually involve actual sex do have an emphasis on sex.
There is a large variation of activities relating to BDSM some of the terms are listed in this A to Z of sex.

Bondage
The idea of being restrained or restraining your sex partner is a common desire and most of us have got the fury hand cuffs out at some time or another.
In the BDSM bondage activity restraints such as ropes, chains, collars, and gags are often used.

Blowjob
This refers to oral sex or sucking of the penis, its correct term is fellatio and while there is no blowing involved the term is thought to come from Victorian slang “below-job” or below the belt.

Bisexual
Bisexual refers to a person’s sexuality or desire, often shortened to “Bi” means you are attracted to and have sex with both men and women.

Cuckold
Refers to a married mans wife who has sex with other men.
A married couple may advertise for a Cuckold partner and he will normally be expected to be a regular visitor and not just as a one of visit.

CD – Cross dressing.
Refers to cross dressing and may refer to men or women who dress in the clothes of the opposite sex.
Although not many will admit to it a large number of men have worn their partner’s knickers at some time in their life.

Dogging
Dogging refers to sexual activity conducted outdoors usually in car parks or parks and with total strangers.

Apparently Essex Police actually requested the council designate an official location where dogging could legally take place however the council immediately rejected the motion without discussion stating they would have nothing to do with sex.
I believe the Police felt that it was an issue to propose it in the first place and the council ignorant for not even allowing discussion to take place.
As usual just mention the word sex and it’s an instant taboo. Why?

Dildo
A dildo is an object used for virginal insertion or stimulation. It differs from a vibrator because it dose not have any vibrating action or movement.

DP – Double penetration
Double penetration is sex that involves penetration of both the virgin and anus at the same time.
This may be achieves with a vibrator or dildo and a man or indeed with two men at the same time.

Fisting
Fisting sometimes associated with BDSM activity involves putting your hand into a vigina and then making a fist. While it may sound painful as long as there is ample lubrication and your fist is not too large most women can accommodate and enjoy it.

Group sex
Sex in a group. Often associated with swinging and may involve just watching or being watched, swapping partners or all joining in together.

Gangbang
A gangbang describes an activity where a woman will have sex with multiple partners in turn at the same time.

Labido
Your sex drive is referred to as your Libido. Your libido can be affected by many things from your general health to what you eat. There are even drugs such as Viagra which can improve your libido.

Masturbation
Masturbation usually refers to the stimulation of your own genitals and may involve the use of dildos and or vibrators.
Masturbation can also be termed mutual if conducted by your partner.

Naturists
A naturist is the description of people who prefer not to where any clothes at all and thus are at one with nature.
Most naturist claim there is no sexual element to naturist while others clearly do it for the sexual arousement.
There are a vast number of naturist clubs dotted around the world along with many nudist beaches.

Orgasm
An orgasm describes the sexual climax or cumming.

Orgy
A word dating back to Greek times describing a gathering for group sex.

Scat
Scat refers to sexual activity involving your bodily waist such as faces and urine.
Yuck !

Swinging and Swingers
Swingers are generally couples who meet others for sexual activities.
Born from wife swapping it is now a more upmarket affair where the women decide who they will go with.
Very often the female is bisexual.
There are a vast number of younger swinger couples looking to explore the sexual possibilities swinging can bring such as bisexual, group, and voyeurism.
To cater for this there are also a vast number of adult clubs or swingers clubs where you can go and meet others.

Swingers are divided into two main groups.
Soft Swing
Soft swingers usually means that they do not have full sex or penetrative sex with others, some may not engage in any activity with others and may like to watch or be watched as in voyeurism while other soft swingers may swap partners for touching and oral sex.

Full Swing
Full swing or full swap means to fully swap partners for full penetrative sex.
Some will even do this in separate rooms.

Transsexual
A transsexual is someone who is going through the change of sex.
A man who has taken female hormone will begin to change in many ways and even start to grow breasts and eventually he may lose the operation of his penis.

Transvestite
A transvestite is a man who dresses a s a woman usually full time but remains a man.

Viagra
The most wildly used wonder drug for sex is Viagra but we think is only available for men which are not generally the sex that need to improve, and don't most men walk around with a constant hard on anyway? I know I do. It is unsure if the drug actually increases desire for sex or just makes him ready.

Vibrator
A vibrator is a vibrating sex aid usually for female stimulation of the clitoris and or vigina.